Thursday, 2 June 2016
Friday, 27 May 2016
How To find Your Passion?
How To Find Your Passion?
More people who grew up poor say it was passion that
pushed them to their success.
Passion is a big key to success, if you don’t believe go
and google read successful people auto biography they will say they love what
they do.
Passion is important to success but the big problem is
finding your passion.
If you are sitting there thinking “what is wrong with me”
I don’t know what I love.
Don’t worry welcome to the club called ‘”Seekers”
Because the history is lot of seekers found their
passion.
There is something in you that pushes you in a certain
direction and you just have to go with it.
Get out there and explore many paths, the more experience
and the faster you get them the better. That always Payoff.
If you continue to do like this one fine day you will
fall in to your passion.
Many successful people fallen in to their passion.
Follow your heart not wallet.
But normally we tempt to follow money.
But successful people follow their heart not wallet. Saturday, 4 July 2015
Happiness through meditation
There is one sure way to achieve happiness, which is to simply to live happy. You are probably thinking right now: "How do I get to be happy?" or "Things just don't work like that." However, meditation can be done many different ways. You can find the one that works best for your purposes.
Being happy more of the time than you have been is an incredibly difficult task to accomplish. Yet, I still say that with meditation you can do it. The path that you have chose that led you to your current situation was not a few days or months in the making, but a long and strenuous path that has spanned through many years.
In reality it has taken you as long as you have been alive to become the way you are today. It has also taken you that long to achieve what you have achieved, to possess, and to arrive at your current condition. By taking the time to meditate and think about who you are, and what you have in your life is truly what you want, If you are completely satisfied with the way your life is going, congratulations. Do more of what you have been doing and you will get more of what you already have in your life.
But if who you are, what you want, what you have, and your current conditions are less than what you want or perhaps are different from what you want, then you have to start meditating. Start with some basic changes you will need to make in your life. Failure to make those changes will find you continuing to seek the things you really would like in your life as the years pass by.
Because some of this will seem impossible, ridiculous, or maybe even foolish, it may cause you to ridicule what you are reading. I really want to suggest to you that before you may reject how meditation can help you through your life, ask yourself whether or not you want it to be true. Then for your benefit please give yourself the chance to see it as true.
In this day and time with all the things we have to deal with in our lives it is very hard to stay on a positive level and be happy all the time. But just taking a few minutes a day just meditating by yourself will help you keep things in perspective. Then instead of being unhappy about a situation, you can find a way to find the happy part of being unhappy.
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Tuesday, 30 June 2015
12 Things You Can Do Every Day To Become Highly Successful
12 Things You Can Do Every Day To Become Highly Successful.
Success is defined many ways. Financial, relationship and philanthropic success are just a few ways we can measure success. How does someone become successful in their goals? Here are 12 things you can do to help you achieve success.
1. Plan your day the night before
Stephen Covey stated in his book 7 Habits of Highly Effective People that you should review the coming day the night before. This way you have already created a mental map of how tomorrow will flow. You can make sure you have the information for your meetings and if you need to add other activities you can know where you may have time. By planning your day the night before you are being proactive and not reactive.
2. Create a “to do” list
Okay, so you have just planned your day. Any thoughts pop up? What main topic were you going to cover in that customer meeting? Make a note. Were you low on milk this morning at breakfast? Grab some on the way home from work if you forgot to already. Any calls you need to make? Write it down. If you create a list of things you want to accomplish the next day you have a greater chance of accomplishing them.
3. Get a good night sleep
This is easier to do after you have planned your day, feel comfortable with what you have to accomplish tomorrow and then can clear your mind of it. You won’t have to lay in bed trying to keep straight in your head what you have to do tomorrow because you have a list. You should also sleep no less than eight hours and make sure you go to bed about the same time every night. If you do like to read before bed do it somewhere other than your bed.
4. Get up earlier than you need to
Getting ready for work in the morning always seems to take longer than we think. Then there is traffic, weather and parking to deal with. If you give yourself extra time you will be more present in the moment when you load your car or computer bag and the chances of forgetting something is reduced. You will also be more relaxed when you reach your destination. Nothing says failure like a rushed, disorganized sweaty guy running into a meeting late.
5. Read
You have been hearing this since elementary school. It doesn’t matter what you read. You can read the Wall Street Journal for 45 minutes a day or a novel at night before you go to bed, just not in your bed. You can read business or books about hobbies. The point is that you read. Reading increases our vocabulary, makes us better spellers and exercises the muscle that is our brain… Well, the brain is an organ, but you get the point.
6. Set goals
A goal is a dream with a timeline. Not only do you need to set goals, but set different sized goals. If your goal is start your own company you need to set goals about gaining skills that will help you run a small business. Start by getting a job in the industry and then try to get promoted in the first year. Or if your goal is to write a book set a goal of having a certain number of chapters done by a certain date.
7. Measure your goals
How do you know if you are on track if you don’t measure your goals? If you are six months into that job and things are not looking like a promotion is going to happen… Why? Did you underestimate how much you needed to learn? That’s fine – adjust your timeline. If you are not doing what you need to be doing think about why you have lost interest or momentum. Maybe this line of work is not for you?
8. Reflect
Our lives are a story, not a plan. A plan is linear and a story does not follow a straight path. Your life is a story with subplots and surprise characters. It is okay to reevaluate your goals and where you think you were headed and change direction. That is how you learn and figure out what you are good at doing.
9. Get a mentor
A mentor should keep you honest. If you are not hitting your goals they should call you on it. You should have regular meetings with them and let them know what your goals are and the time frame you have given yourself to accomplish them.
10. Stay healthy
Sick people find it difficult to be successful because they are just trying to stay alive. Take care of yourself. Exercise, stretch and eat right. Exercise is a great way to keep you mind fresh by letting off stress. It can also give you time to gather your thoughts. Stretching is important because it keeps you from getting injured and then not being able to exercise. I am not talking about running a marathon – A long walk on a regular basis counts.
11. Focus
Multitasking is a lie. Successful people focus on what they are good at and leave everyone in their dust Look at what you are interested in doing in life and see if you are good at it. If you are, you are done looking. You have found your ONE thing. See you on the other side!
12. Rinse and repeat
Consistency is what makes people successful. I’m sure you have all had that coach who told you, “what you do in practice, you do in a game.” That person is a genius, listen to them. Practice makes perfect… fake it ’till you make it. Whatever saying you want to use it all means the same thing. Once you have found your one thing keep working on getting better and better at it. How do you do that? Start with number one on this list and do all twelve steps over again, day after day until it becomes second nature. It takes 21 days to form a habit.
Thursday, 11 September 2014
Will You Choose Love Or Fear?
“All fear is nothing more than thoughts. If there is only one, there cannot be a second to be afraid of. If we look to our Self, as it is one, there is nothing else to be afraid of. To think that there is something outside ourselves is the cause of fear, but if we are firmly rooted in our own reality, then there will be no fear, no doubt and no undesirable qualities, as all these are centered around the ego. The state of equanimity is the state of bliss.” -Ramana Maharshi
Here’s a hypothetical situation. Suppose a terrorist has taken you and your family hostage, and this terrorist says:
“You have two choices. Choice #1: Walk away from your family and I’ll spare all your lives. The only catch is, you can never talk to them again.
Or you can take Choice #2: Go through a series of extensive challenges and tests. They’re some of the hardest in the world. The tests change as you take them. And they could take you months or even years to complete.
During your testing period, you won’t see your family at all. If you pass all of the tests, I will set you and your family free. If you don’t pass, I will kill you and torture your family for several years.”
Sure it’s a very extreme example. But it serves to answer one simple question: When faced with extreme adversity, will you choose love or fear?
It’s easy to choose love when life is good. And even during times of normal adversity, choosing love doesn't have to be difficult. However, it’s when life gets the most difficult that we have to decide if we’ll continue on the path of love or if we will identify with fear. That’s not an easy decision to make. It seems like it should be. Choose love, right? Always choose love?
Except for two things. First, we have a lot of historical programming that directs our attention towards fear. Secondly, the example above challenges the notion that we always know the best way to express love. One of those choices guarantees that everybody lives... but doesn't guarantee they live happily. Maybe they do after healing from the trauma and separation. Maybe the trauma and separation destroy their lives. You can’t be certain. That choice expresses love through a guarantee of protection. The outcome is certain. Unfortunately, the rewards are limited.
The other choice expresses love through courage. The path is uncertain. The outcome is uncertain. And the rewards are limitless. Another way of asking the “love or fear” question is this: Is the greatest risk worth the greatest reward?
Like I said, it’s an extreme example. The thing is though, it’s not so far off from reality. We are making these kinds of smaller decisions every single day.
Will you be totally authentic with your partner?
- Risk: Rejection, conflict, and pain.
- Reward: Profound intimacy and unbridled happiness.
Will you give your employer (or business) 100%?
- Risk: Going unnoticed, failure, being overworked, and more
- Reward: Increased pay, promotions, flourishing business
Will you dedicate your life to personal transformation?
- Risk: Wasted time, ineffective results, wasted money, disillusionment
- Reward: A life of peace, joy, happiness, and love
In each example, the choice is between love and fear. Most people give “just enough” to their relationships, their work, and their personal transformation efforts. It’s almost like the example above: They are identifying with just enough fear so that they protect themselves with limited rewards. They aren't choosing to giving themselves fully to the world and thereby reaping the greatest rewards possible.
We can’t always know the risks and rewards in advance. Life is too uncertain, too fluid, to mysterious for that. What we can know are our values. We can practice risk versus reward and love versus fear in smaller safe situations. Then we can work up to bigger situations.
Practice being authentic with a life coach or best friend. Practice giving 100% to a new business adventure in your spare time. Practice devoting 6 months to a single personal transformation program without distraction. For just a brief period in your life, in a safe context, simply choose love.
See if the risks are worth the rewards. See if love conquers fear. Find out what’s true for you.
Sunday, 31 August 2014
Watch Your Thoughts!
“Carefully watch your thoughts, for they become your words. Manage and watch your words, for they will become your actions. Consider and judge your actions, for they have become your habits. Acknowledge and watch your habits, for they shall become your values. Understand and embrace your values, for they become your destiny.” -Mahatma Gandhi
Being a person is frustrating, isn't it? I mean, you have many responsibilities to fill: being a good mother or father, a good son or daughter, earn money, live your passion, be healthy, and on and on the list goes. Then, not only do you have to fulfill the responsibilities for the roles you play in life, you need to manage yourself.
As Mahatma Gandhi said, “Carefully watch your thoughts, for they become your words. Manage and watch your words, for they will become your actions. Consider and judge your actions, for they have become your habits. Acknowledge and watch your habits, for they shall become your values. Understand and embrace your values, for they become your destiny”.
His quote above has many nuggets of wisdom in it. And it is true, if you carefully watch your thoughts, words, actions, habits, and values, you create tremendous amounts of choice to how you want to live.
However, ninety-nine percent of the people in the world do not want to take on the responsibility of being human. They would rather conform to past generations of beliefs, habits, and values, even if it cost them their happiness.
You see, what Gandhi points out is that happiness, success, and peace are completely under your control, if you’re willing to do the work. Gandhi even showed you the way to control your destiny in his quote.
But you’re right; learning how to watch your thoughts, words, actions, habits, and values is time consuming. And, how are you supposed to watch those things in the first place? Well, what Gandhi is communicating is that being aware of how you do your life is the key to freedom and controlling your destiny.
How the human being works
It apparently seems that your happiness and success are determined from what happens to you in life. In other words, the situations or circumstances that arise determine how you live, how happy you are, and what your destiny is to become; therefore, that would look something like this:
What happens to you —> determines how you feel —> determines your actions —> determines your results.
This model shows that you have no control over your functioning and what you create in life. However, there is a missing step that most people are not aware of: What happens to you triggers —> an internal representation —> which determines how you feel and behave —> which determines your results.
The key to focus on are the internal representations. Your internal representations are the images, self talk, and other sensory experiences that happen within you. And before your internal representations even happen, the outside experience passes through a series of filters comprised of learned beliefs, values, decisions, and categories.
So, essentially, if you change how you filter your experiences, which means change what you believe or value, then you will create internal representations that create what you want to feel and how to behave, and those feelings and behaviors will create your results.
For example, let’s say that you struggle with intimate relationships. Each time you date a new partner, he turns out to be the same as the past dead-beat boyfriends. Futhermore, the relationship never lasts longer than six months. Well, 99% of people believe that when this happens, it’s because they haven’t found the right person, and it’s the other person’s negative qualities that creates the poor relationship.
However, what’s really happening is that you are focusing on what you don’t want in a relationship. In other words, you are making internal representations of what you don’t want, thus attracting the same dead beat boyfriends.
The way out of this trap is to become aware of the internal representations that you make. Go into your various life situations knowing that a particular result is going to happen, and watch with awareness the images, feelings, and self talk that happens as you experience these life situations.
Going back to the relationship example, you know that every man you attract ends up being a dysfunctional relationship. However, this time around, you want to change that and attract a loving, intimate partner. What you do is go out on a date and have interactions with men, observe what experiences trigger your negative thoughts and emotions, and observe how you do those thoughts and emotions – your internal representations.
Do not try to change the situation or do something different. Just watch how you do your life – the internal representations - in a "date" situation. Maybe you become aware that you only talk to the best looking men. Or, maybe you become aware that you play flirtious games that give the wrong impression. Or, maybe you become aware of self talk that is sex driven. It doesn't matter what you become aware of, what’s important is that you can see how your internal representations, in the moment, are creating your feelings and behaviors.
Then, as you watch with awareness, whatever is dysfunctional and non-resourceful will automatically drop away. A more resourceful thought, feeling, and behavior will respond to what’s needed in the moment.
When you watch with awareness how you are creating your dysfunction in the moment, it’s too difficult to continue the dysfunctional behavior. Why? Because the human beings are naturally resourceful, integrated, and functioning.
To create the destiny you desire and have choice over what you attract in life, awareness over how you do your life – your internal representations – will drop the non-resourceful feelings and behaviors, and a new resourceful result will become present.
You do not need will power or constant affirmations to change your life. Watching yourself with awareness will give you choice over how you want your life to turn out.
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